这个天使...她才18岁，患上了白血病...【经过众迈亲们的关心！事情已经改变了！】

djj41010

非常感谢你看到这个标题进来，我想说，我没有说谎，以下我所说的都没有说谎！！

我在网上，经YM（yahoo messager!)认识了一个印尼朋友，她18岁，和我一样大，我们用英文聊天。但是，过了一个月后，当我提到我想去见她，但恐怕要4~5年以后，她说她可能等不到了，才告诉我她在前几个月发现自己有白血病。我当时就崩溃了。但是，她家庭不富有，支付不起医费。。。
我立刻说，我会尽我一切所能帮你的，尽管我实际上连michael的vision和新专辑都不能买。但我相信，有些人能帮我，那就是迈迷们，我非常相信一句话，all for love。
我想要她的医生证明和银行账号，好让我给大家证明。但是她不给我，她不想麻烦我。。。她不想任何人去帮她，她不想打搅任何人。。。。

我和她说，帮人其实是一种爱，一种荣幸，对双方都好。。。还有说了很多。。。

但是她都只是笑了笑，就是只是发一个笑脸表情，然后转开话题。。。

这是她的原话
gendischibi: i just don't have hope for life
gendischibi: please don't deeply in love with me, and please find other girl and try to love her, because i will leave u
gendischibi: i won't see u sad when i die(leave u)

而经过众迈亲的热心帮助，你知道她说什么了吗？？
gendischibi: uuuhhmmm
gendischibi: no
gendischibi: i should live
gendischibi: for u
Jiaju: Really?You ever said leave me alone and die in peace.
gendischibi: yeah
gendischibi: yeah, i know, that's because i think i have no hope for live
gendischibi: but now
gendischibi: i think i should live
gendischibi: for my family
gendischibi: my friends
gendischibi: and for u
Jiaju: and for u.for yourself



众人的爱扶起了她的生存欲望！！让大家都和我一起喊一声好吗？？？？？

Love lives forever!!!!

她真的是一个天使....

【之前的说话】她说，有个美国男人，30多岁，海军，说可以帮她给这笔费用，但是要让她做老婆。那美国人不停联系她，但她心底不愿意，拒绝了。。。但是对生命的渴望，她也问我究竟接不接受好。但是我帮不了她，也不想她死，所以我想她嫁的，但是又不想她丢下尊严。。。
结果，我还是建议她找那个美国人了，因为我听一个迈亲说，活着就有希望，而且我也认同。

但是最后！！她还是选择不和美国人在一起了
她坚强地站了起来，为自己，为，她站了起来了！！

当然，我还会继续等各位的真挚回复！！我会立刻转发给她的！！

如果大家不相信我所说的，我上传我和她的聊天记录，虽然很长（最重要是很恶心。。。对不起。。。），而且语法很差，但希望你有耐心看，呵呵。。

如果各位有空可以看看
这是一些我的聊天记录，我删改了一些 都明白吧。但是我让大家看看大家的michael的大爱精神，michael的歌曲是如何打救一个人的！！

我发各位迈迷的真挚祝福给她。她开始有少少改变了
djj41010 (10:59:13): Im doing what all I can to let my friends know your event
djj41010 (11:00:02): And tell many people that I even don't know
djj41010 (11:01:29): U will know your life is precious.
djj41010 (11:50:01): do you know,I found that many people have something to tell you.It is true.Not made by myself
djj41010 (12:00:10):  melozdf:The more you believe，the better you become！Don't be afraid of the disease you got！！！We hope to witness the miracle,which happened to you!!
djj41010 (12:00:23):  若我们只如初见:We should do our best to help you.keep the faith.
Don't give up.
djj41010 (12:00:44):  (1)孩子般的世界:I want to tell you angel,we should not treat the help from others are naturely.When we gain our help,we should be grateful.
djj41010 (12:00:58): (2)And we can help others in the future,it will become much better.Dont reject the others' help,because when helping you,we gain happiness,too.
gendischibi (12:05:53): I receive it
djj41010 (12:48:59): :)
djj41010 (12:54:26): one of my friends told me this:哈金 12:51:26
活着就有希望
djj41010 (12:55:06): Which in English,she wanna tell you,when there is life,there is hope.
gendischibi (12:58:39): Yeah, i know.
djj41010 (14:34:45): What are you doing now?
gendischibi (14:41:55): Just laying on my bed:-) what are u doing?
djj41010 (14:41:41): just sitting on my chair:)
djj41010 (14:42:27): hey,one of my friend have something tell you,too
djj41010 (14:42:42): do you want to read it?
gendischibi (14:48:31): Yes
djj41010 (14:47:00): she's only 14 years old:)
djj41010 (14:47:21): Hi, my English is poor, but I just want to tell you, the most difficult thing but a really essential one is to love life.
djj41010 (14:47:35): To love it even while one suffers. Just keep the faith and never give up.You are only 18 years old, youth means limitless possibilities.
djj41010 (14:47:47): You have to know that you are not alone. We will always stand by you and do all what we can to help you.
djj41010 (14:47:53):  So, I hope you can keep holding on and overcome disease. God bless you. Take care!

gendischibi (14:53:09): :-)
djj41010 (14:56:42): how u feel now?
gendischibi (15:00:26): I don't know, half sad and half glad.


然后，我把我最喜欢的hold my hand      ”打“给她，不过因为歌曲有很多重复的部分，我没可能全部都打出，而且我也改了部分。不过，哈哈，还是将近成功了！
gendischibi (16:22:14): Ge ge, it make me confused and make my head dizzy:-(
gendischibi (16:22:52): I don't want to talk about my illness again
djj41010 (16:20:47): ok,ok,Im sorry:)
djj41010 (16:23:30): well,talk about something funny:)
djj41010 (16:23:47): well,what about a joke?
gendischibi (16:26:45): It's ok ge ge.
gendischibi (16:27:31): I don't want to talk about joke.
djj41010 (16:25:28): :(
djj41010 (16:26:17): sorry:(
djj41010 (16:27:02): well,I can sing a english song to you.well,I can type it.would you like to hear it?
gendischibi (17:18:30): yes, please
gendischibi (17:18:39): type it to me
djj41010 (17:16:25): hehe,alright:D
djj41010 (17:16:48): well,it is Michael Jackson's Hold My Hand
djj41010 (17:16:55): have you ever heard it?
gendischibi (17:17:02): no
gendischibi (17:17:08): never heard that
djj41010 (17:17:22): hehe,it is a new song:)
djj41010 (17:17:34): And now I will sing for u:)
gendischibi (17:17:45): :)
djj41010 (17:20:48): begin:)
djj41010 (17:21:13): These days won't last forever
djj41010 (17:21:25): So tell me that what we are waiting for?
djj41010 (17:21:38): We better being together:)
djj41010 (17:21:51): Than sadly alone
djj41010 (17:22:29): Cuz I've there before and you've been there before but together we can be alright:)
djj41010 (17:23:01): Cuz when it get dark and when it get cold we can hold each other till we see the sunlight:)
djj41010 (17:23:37): So if you just hold my hand,baby I promise that I'll do all I can
djj41010 (17:23:59): Things will be better if you just hold my hand
djj41010 (17:24:27): Nothing come between us if you just hold my hand:)
djj41010 (17:25:57): And this night is getting darker.Can you see mei mei?:)
djj41010 (17:26:08): And no peace inside.
djj41010 (17:27:02): So why make your life harder?By fighting love tonight?
djj41010 (17:28:24): Cus we've been there before and you've been there but together we could be alright:)
djj41010 (17:28:42): So you should hold my hand>:d<
djj41010 (17:29:36): Hold our hands.
gendischibi (17:29:56): :)



然后之后，再经过一番说话后，就出现了上述那一幕了！在Michael Jackson的精神，和各位迈迷们的帮助，她重新站起来了！！


但是，我作为她朋友，我真的很怀疑，仅仅是精神支撑着，没有药物等帮助，她真的能挨过吗？？？我知道有事实证明是可以的。但是，更多的是，不可能....我希望有善心的人士看到能联系我，给予她帮助。我的邮箱djj41010@yahoo.com.cn
我知道在这里筹款也不大可能了，但我会尽我最大努力去支持她！

还有！！我很想知道外国有哪些迈迷网站，或者普通网站我可以找到帮助的呢？？而有谁可以帮助下我呢？

希望大家能帮助她，确实无能为力的，用英文给予她支持。在这几天对话中，我发觉，从她发现自己患病到现在，唯一支撑她生存下去的，就是希望...我希望大家告诉她希望，给予她希望！！

迈爸爸

Disease is not terrible. Persistent and love can overcome it. We by your side. Love will accompany you forever. Use your most tenacious life to smile ~God bless you!Our angel!

任性の迈

Strong, we've been up to your side, even if one day you really exhibition wing but go to, you are not alone ~

djj41010

oh my god!!!我的意思不是她会死啊！！！我不想她死啊！！
她还有机会的！！她只是不想我们帮她而已啊！！
我想大家说一些话，让她肯让其他人帮她

michael永存

先酝谅下看怎么说合适

melozdf

The more you believe，the better you become！！！！Don't be afraid of the disease you got！！！We hope to witness the miracle,which happened to you！！

英文悲催了。

We should do our best to help you.keep the faith.
Don't give up.

孩子般的世界

我英文不大好，用中文代替吧。
想告诉这位天使，我们只要不把别人的帮助当做理所当然。在我们得到帮助后，心怀感恩。
以后在我们有能力了，我们再帮助别人，那就很好了。不要拒绝别人的帮助，因为在帮助
你的同时，我们也获得快乐了。最后，祝你早日康复。

snyang

一时真的好难表达~
recieve it, without worry.Accept it, transfer it to greater love for those are suffering.
她也不必担心会打扰我们，因为有他的存在，爱理所当然、奋不顾身、毫不犹豫。
接受了，要感恩的是回馈给更多遭受苦难、需要帮助的人。

fef25

Don't give up!Giving is not a troubling but a telling of love!Keep the faith!Carry On,you'are not alone!

mmjjzlb

what we must do in our lives is to love and be loved.we all should stand together as one,only in this way,the meaning of life can exist.michael  said"there' nothing cannot be done,if we raise our voice as one".that's the trueth.if the love from everyone'bottom of heart can be expressed,no pain,hurt,or struggle will last.so,a chinese boy hope you,an indonesian girl to accept the love.we both know the pain in life,so let love each other.

bing308

近10年来，随着分子生物学、生物遗传学的进展，使白血病预后得到极大的改观。“白血病是不治之症”已成了过去。正规、系统地治疗可以使大多数白血病患者长期无病生存，甚至痊愈。
活下去最重要，生死关头，还考虑不要麻烦别人，这想法怎么对头。
it's terribly wrong to consider whether to bother others when facing death

那个美国海军是目前看来最好的选择，靠几个迈迷是不行的，不是打击楼主。可以和他协商，尽量给自己争取选择权，如果非得嫁，那就嫁吧——这是最实际的想法，什么叫留得青山在啊！

djj41010

回复 bing308 的帖子

。。。。。。。。。这是对于有钱人来说啊
我和她都是穷人，白血病的治疗费是T M D贵啊

lazyshalkin

如果她愿意接受帮助，需要捐款，发邮件告诉我一声好吗，即使我能力很有限，但我答应过迈迈从镜中之人做起去帮助他人，lazyshalkin@163.com。ALL FOR LOVE.
只希望你不是骗子，希望你不要夺取我所剩无几的信任。我相信你因为你是迈亲。ALL FOR LOVE。迈迈会保佑她的
You are not alone.All i wanna say that somebody loving you now,any kinds of love.I don't know you but you know i hope i can do something for you to let you get well.All for love!!heartfelt.

djj41010

回复 lazyshalkin 的帖子

我真的很感谢你
你真的是很好人，我也答应过迈，heal the world。我很想救她，但是没能力。。。。

先谢谢你。。。但是我已经对她说了，让她去接受那个美国人。。。。当然，她会几天之后才去找他。
如果我能在几天之内筹够钱的话。。。那么就能真正拯救她。。。但是恐怕没这个可能。。。。