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发表于 2010-1-12 12:31:33
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本帖最后由 dora 于 2010-1-12 12:58 编辑
《蜗居》里面有句经典台词:(人之所以慷慨是因为他得到的,比付出的多)
当然这个说法对MJ不完全 ...
terry1983115 发表于 2010-1-11 23:21 
他慷慨因为他太有钱, 这不是事实,是你的想法。
我认为mj不是因为他有钱了才慷慨, 因为不是每个有钱人就慷慨, 没钱的就自私。
我认为他慷慨最主要是因为他有善心。而他因为有钱才可以去实现他想做的事情 捐助慈善
大方和善良是内心的东西, 不会因为你有了钱有了地位就会变善良变慷慨大方。
他老爸说他小时候拿到钱就花在买糖果与别的小孩子分享。 还有, mj小时在电视上看到了非洲难民的困境就流着泪的对他老妈说将来有一天他一定要做点什么 (someday i'm gonna do something about it) 他后来有钱有地位了才有能力去做到这些事情。
有歌迷说他因为想要荣耀而去做善事, 我不同意这个说法。他因为捐助慈善而随之拥有的荣耀不能用来表示他就是为了荣耀而行善。
那时他得知一个黑人音乐人横尸街头,家人也没钱给他举行葬礼, 他听了就被触动私下给了他们需要的葬礼费用。
现在社会上很多人都爱做义工来反馈社会,有些主要是想为自己积德, 有些是真的太空闲而又对娱乐没兴趣(我以前有个做义工的同事就这样跟我说的), 有些当然真正出自内心。 无论歌迷怎么说, 我一直认为MJ是个有悲天悯人的心的非常善良不忍看到人间疾苦而付诸行动做点事情的人。mj tapes里面他就有说到他hate to see others' sufferings and he is sensitive to their pains. 另外在sony两个前雇员的访谈中也可以看到他这一面。 简单翻译:
cory: mj对我说“当我还小的时候我不只被否定童年,还被否定(否认?)爱,当我害怕上台时joe只会说你给我滚上台",不只joe, 他身边的大人都一样。他对我说: 我不会否定对孩子的爱,如果我要因此受批评或最终被判坐牢, 他们要怎么做自然就会那么做。
可能听起来感觉他很有messiah complex可是我认为他就是这样的人, 我认为。 我觉得不能因为自己不相信有内心纯良的人的存在就非得去找些理由说他做的一切是为了想‘神话’自己是为了自己的荣耀。以上是个人意见。
CR: “Let me explain to you what was said to me directly from Michael. Michael and I spoke about that. He said, ‘Cory, when I was a kid, I was denied not only a childhood but I was denied love. When I reached out to hug my father, he didn’t hug me back. When I was scared on an airplane, he didn’t put his arm around me and say Michael, don’t worry. It’s going to be ok. When I was scared to go on stage, he said, ‘Get your ass on this stage.’ Not just him, but every other adult around him.
So he said to me ‘Cory, I will never deny a child love and if it means that I have to be crucified or put in jail for it, then that’s just what they’re gonna have to do.’ When it was time for him to stand trial, the first time he went through it, his advisors told him, ‘Michael, this is not good. Pay this kid off and let’s keep moving.’ Second time he said, ‘You know what? All that did was make me look guilty like I was hiding something. So this time there won’t be any payoffs. I’m going to fight this in court. You’ll see. I’ll be innocent.’ |
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