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发表于 2009-9-20 18:12:38
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QUESTION: Hi thanks again for your great responses. I would like to know how was Michael able to wait so long to have sex? I'm not sure how he would be able to resist the temtation and I have a hard time believing he didn't sleep with anyone before Lisa marie. I would also like to know why he picked her to marry? To be honest I don't like her lol especially now with how she talks about him, and she doesn't seem right for him or the kind of person he would be interested in, I was always hoping she wasn't his first. Do you think Michael will marry again?
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Hi, Kim
Great to hear from you again. Thanks for the nomination and feedback.
1) Michael has always been shy and rather modest when it came to discussing his sex life. He is still that way today. He believes that part of his life should remain private and I agree with him. He was able to wait as long as he did because of the demands from his career. He said many times he found it hard to make friends and to find someone because of his fame and working so much. So it made sense for him to date those in the industry. He has admitted on several occasions that he was "afraid" and not ready for a sexual relationship with the women he dated and sometimes they were not interested in him that way. It has to be mutual.
2) His religious upbringing and his mother has had a significant impact on how he deals with and relates to women. Naturally, Michael was tempted but he really wanted to be in love with the person he gave himself to. Because he was not sleeping around, the media and peers begin to think he was a homosexual which was an unfair assumption. The one thing I know, Michael can not perform as sensual as he does on stage and write the type of sensual songs he does and be a homosexual. I know for a fact in studying Michael, he is a very sensitive, sensual, flirtatious, loving, sexy, gentle, man. He is definitely true to his Virgo sign.
3) With Shana, if he lost something so important to him like his virginity to her, it would be difficult for him not to want to be with her or marry her. On the other hand, He had been interested in Lisa Marie since she was 16! They had known each other through the years. Her father, Elvis, would bring her to the Jackson's concerts. He also married Debbie Rowe at the advice of his mother, Katherine. She encouraged him to do the right thing if he was going to be having children by someone.
4) Michael stated that he doesn't like breaking anyone's heart. I believe at the time he really cared for Shana. From the one picture I saw of them together, it was more intimate than just a fan. But, he was not in love with her; at least not enough to marry her. Furthermore, Michael has not really been in a strong, healthy relationship with a woman. He has yet to find the true love of his life that he can grow up and grow old with. Unfortunately, He really has not learned what it takes to make a good marriage nor how to select a woman that he is compatible with. He has stated that having his children has really been a learning experience. It is teaching him about commitment, about giving of himself and of his time to someone else. Hey, Michael has spent his whole life being catered too!
5) Yes, Michael does want to get married again. But for now he dates,works on his projects and loves being a father. |
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